Frequently Asked Questions

Couple Up provides structured, coaching-led relationship support for married and committed couples who want to communicate better, handle conflict more constructively and rebuild connection.The approach is practical and focused on helping you understand your relationship patterns, develop new skills and create measurable changes in everyday life.

Couple Up provides coaching-led relationship support rather than clinical psychotherapy or mental-health treatment.People frequently use “marriage counselling” as a general term when searching for help with their relationship. Couple Up supports many of the concerns associated with marriage counselling, including communication problems, repeated conflict, emotional distance and loss of connection, but does so through a structured coaching approach.The focus is on understanding your current relationship pattern, deciding what you want to change and developing practical ways to move forward.

Simon Middleton is the founder of Couple Up and an Associate Certified Coach with the International Coaching Federation.He has completed more than 1,000 hours of professional coaching and has worked with people from a wide range of cultural and professional backgrounds.Simon is British, based in Singapore and married to a Singaporean. His international experience gives him an understanding of modern and multicultural relationships, including differences in communication, family expectations and expressions of love.

The Couple Up approach draws on professional coaching methods, communication-style assessments, conflict-pattern mapping, values exploration and Gottman-informed relationship principles.These ideas are turned into practical tools and conversations that couples can use during disagreements and in everyday life.