Marriage Counselling Singapore for Modern Couples
Couple Up provides online marriage counselling support for couples in Singapore who want to improve communication, resolve repeated conflict and rebuild their connection.
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When communication breaks down, even strong relationships can start to feel difficult. Many couples reach out because they keep having the same arguments, feel emotionally disconnected or no longer know how to talk without it turning tense.
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Led by Simon Middleton, founder of Couple Up, an ICF Associate Certified Coach (ACC) and Gottman Method-trained relationship coach with over 1,000 hours of coaching experience, Couple Up combines relationship science, structured conversations and practical exercises to help couples understand their patterns and move forward together.
Looking for marriage counselling in Singapore?
Choosing support is personal. You want to feel comfortable with the person you are speaking to and understand how the work will help.
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Couple Up offers a structured, coaching-led approach through the 7-Week Relationship Reset. We combine Gottman Method principles, communication tools and practical activities you can use at home.
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Together, we explore your patterns, practise new ways to respond and make more room for the friendship and connection you may have been missing.
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If you are comparing options, you can also read our guide to marriage counselling costs in Singapore, including private, subsidised and online support.
Why Singapore Couples Seek Marriage Counselling
Singapore couples often carry unique pressures:
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demanding careers and long working hours
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balancing work and family life
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parenting pressures
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financial decisions
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different communication styles
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managing expectations from two families
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feeling disconnected despite living busy lives together
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Many couples do not seek support because they have stopped loving each other.
They seek support because they have stopped feeling like a team.
Signs It May Be Time to Get Support
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Your relationship. Your next step.
Seven weeks, a day or a weekend away, find your way to reconnect, have fun and make time for each other.
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Free Relationship Reset Pack
Still having the same argument?
Get the free Couple Up guide with 3 practical tools to help you spot the pattern, pause conflict and reconnect.
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Enter your name and email and we’ll send it straight to your inbox.
Real couples in Singapore. Real change.
Explore client feedback and programme results, including experiences shared by couples in Singapore.
We’d tried counselling before, but this felt completely different, action over analysis. The 1:1 sessions helped us be honest, the joint session aligned us, and the simple communication tools turned arguments into real conversations.
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Maya & Arjun, Singapore
Before starting, nearly every conversation seemed to become an argument. The programme helped us understand the pattern we were trapped in and showed us how to respond differently. We now listen better, repair disagreements sooner and feel like a team again.
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Chris & Wei, Singapore
We had not stopped loving each other, but we had stopped knowing how to talk without becoming defensive. Simon created a calm space where we both felt heard. The practical tools made the biggest difference because we could use them immediately at home.
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Adam & Sarah, Singapore
The 7-Week Relationship Reset
One Programme.
Everything You Need to
Reset Your Relationship.
$2500 SGD
A focused online programme built around your relationship:
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8 private, one-hour coaching sessions
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Two individual clarity sessions, one with each partner
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Six structured couple sessions
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Communication-style assessments
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Relationship-pattern and conflict-loop mapping
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Values, needs and emotional-connection work
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Practical listening and communication scripts
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Tools for repairing arguments and rebuilding trust
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Personalised exercises and weekly actions
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Session notes, tools and resources
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A tailored Relationship Growth Plan
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30-day follow-up check-in
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100% online
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Start with a free conversation
Book a free 30-minute Relationship Analysis Session to discuss what is happening, what you want to change and whether the programme is right for you.
Support that fits around life here.
No journey across Singapore or extra travel time between commitments.
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Join your sessions online, in English, from a quiet space where you can both speak freely. We’ll agree appointment times directly with you in Singapore time.
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If home is shared with children, relatives or housemates, plan for uninterrupted privacy during each session.
Different backgrounds.
A shared life.
You may have different ideas about privacy, family involvement, money or what being a good partner means.
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One of you might show love through practical support. The other may need affection or reassurance. Those differences deserve a conversation.
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Originally from the UK, Simon has lived the expat life since 2011, including time in Singapore and Mauritius. Now based in Singapore and married to a Singaporean, he understands personally how different cultures and expectations meet in one relationship.
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An ICF Associate Certified Coach (ACC) with 1,000+ hours of professional coaching experience, Simon has completed Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy. He combines that training with warmth, curiosity and practical tools to help you understand each other and build a stronger connection.
